Thursday, July 26, 2007

Happenings for the Week


Welcome to our newest member of the family! Our niece, Katelyn, was born Tuesday morning weighing in at 7 lbs 12 oz and 20 1/2" long. She is having some breathing problems which they say is normal with c-section babies. They have her in the NICU for observation but say that she will most likely go home Saturday. Quite scary for Chet and Amanda (and all of us), but the doctors seem to feel that all is well. Isn't she beautiful? We are anxious to see and hold her!

My other niece has decided to take her sweet time in arriving. Poor Kim is so ready to have this baby, but the dr visit on Monday and the ultrasound today both say that Jenna is perfectly happy right where she is. So, the waiting continues...


I had a scary time with Luke this week. It was one of those "I'm a terrible mother!" moments. I had taken the boys for a walk to Mimi's house. Luke was in the stroller, and the boys were playing around him. I went in the house to drop off some mail. When I came out, Caleb had pulled up all the rugs in front of Mimi's house. As I tried to straighten them out, I heard a crash and Luke started crying. I went to see what happened and figured out that he had wiggled out of the seat belt, stood up, and turned around in the stroller. It had then tipped over and he caught the ground with his chin. When I picked him up blood was dripping from his mouth! I cleaned him up and got him calmed down. Later, I realized that he also had a chipped tooth, the tooth next to the front tooth. We went to see the dentist. Luke has a low fraenum (the skin that connects the top lip to the gum) and it causes his front two teeth to have a gap. The dentist had told me 6 months ago not to worry about it, because the dentist said, "he will probably fall and break the fraenum and when he does it will bleed and bleed." Guess what? He broke the fraenum and it bled and bled! His lip was really swollen, but it looks better now. The dentist wants to see his tooth again in a week to make sure that it is not turning gray indicating root damage. Anyway, he is healing nicely and this is a friendly reminder to always keep an eye on your kids in the stroller!

Oh, the stories of boys!

Thursday, July 19, 2007

A Quick Trip to Houston

The past two weeks are such a blur that I can't even remember what we have been doing. All I know is that we seem forever busy! Joshua has been attending soccer camp this week. He is so cute running around with all the other kids. The "coaches" are high school kids who love to tease and play with them. I think he may be learning something about soccer too? He is only attending the morning sessions of the camp, but he has already told me that next year he wants to go all day, because "they get to watch movies and go swimming". I thought it was soccer camp? Actually, they watch some sort of video during lunch and they do have a swim between the morning and afternoon sessions to cool off.

The trip to Houston was quick and tiring but rewarding! I went with Jean to her checkup at MD Anderson Cancer Clinic. We left here at 5:30 am for a 9:30 flight, she didn't want to be late! We sat at the gate for about 2 hours, but better than trying to run down the concourse like our last trip to CO. I got to sip on a Starbucks and read a magazine, how relaxing! Our plane was little, and we had to actually walk on the runway to get to it. This being Jean's 3rd time flying, she was a little nervous about it. We made it to Houston and got a taxi to the clinic. I thought of a trip to Galveston so many years ago... The clinic is in the middle of a huge Univ Texas medical complex. The building itself is really nice with a self-playing piano in the lobby, a huge waterfall, and fish tanks throughout. We saw her Dr, and he was very pleased with her progress. He said that she is "doing better than we could have imagined when we started." He said that he could not feel the cancer on the physical exam and that they could probably go ahead with surgery, but he wants her to finish 6 more weeks of chemo. So, after the appt we headed to the chemo unit. They had individual rooms for the patient and one companion. It had a bed, chair, TV, DVD/VCR player, plus they brought her a menu and she got dinner during treatment. It sort of reminded me of a labor room but not quite as large. She says that where she does chemo in Gainesville is a large room with everyone sitting around in a circle (I think sort of like where you give blood), so you actually see and interact with other cancer patients. The trip was very sobering to me, as many patients share their stories and while some are uplifting and encouraging, others are not so. We met a lady on the hotel shuttle who had just been told that her breast cancer had returned in other places in her body and that she was "terminal." She sort of said it with a nervous laugh. She said that she was okay with it, but the hard part will be telling her children, a 20 yo boy and 26 yo girl. She looked so young and healthy, it's hard to believe that she has something so terrible in her body. I learned that if your cancer spreads from the breast or recurs later somewhere else, it is still called breast cancer, since that is where it originated. Jean's hair is starting to grow back. It is still short, but it's growing. During chemo, she took off her salt and pepper (black with grey) wig. I tried it on, and asked her how I'd look with short hair, she looked over at me and said "like your mama." I took a look at the mirror and saw my future!

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Joshua

Last week, Joshua learned to swim across the pool. Part of me wanted to jump in and be right there next to him, and another part just sat dumbfounded at how my little boy has grown up to be six and swimming across the pool by himself!

When we went to Six Flags, he was so excited to be big enough to ride a real roller coaster and the joy of riding with him was wonderful! On the way home from Six Flags, he pulled out tooth # 3. Then, he said, "It's sorta bloody back here!"

He had another cavity when we went to the dentist. The dentist said that it's very small, so we can have it filled without gas. Joshua hated the gas the first time they used it.

Lastly, at the end of last week, Joshua told me that he was growing into a man. I asked him why he said that. He looked at me very seriously and said "Well, I am losing my teeth and growing hair on my legs." I just smiled and said "Yes, you are growing into a man."

Girls Everywhere!

I just have to let out a vent...let me go through my list of bridesmaids, and you'll see why I am venting...
1. Amanda - expecting girl in November
2. Julie - 2 girls, aged 3 and 1
3. Laura - 2 girls, aged 3 and 1
4. Kathleen - 1 girl, 2 months
5. Amanda (sis-in-law) - 1 boy, age 9, 1 girl, age 4.5, expecting a girl in 2 weeks
+ my other sis-in-law Kim - 1 boy, age 4 and expecting a girl in 1 week
Total: 2 boys and 9 girls

The only person that I have to compare notes with is Tori - 2 boys, age 2 and 5 months...

I guess that I can just look on the bright side, my boys will have plenty of adorable choices!

Maybe this means that now is the time for #4? LOL!

Seriously though, I am so excited for all these new baby girls, and I can't wait to meet each one and spoil them with pink and dolls that make lots of noise. ;-)

Sunday, July 8, 2007

The 4th, Six Flags, Dumpster Diving

We've had a busy week. For the 4th, we had dinner for Jean's birthday with steak, potatoes, and salad. Joshua eats a whole steak by himself! We had planned to go to the fireworks, but since the boys didn't get a nap, we didn't make it. They saw fireworks the week before, so I didn't feel that they were missing too much. Matt worked in the basement finishing the sheetrock on Wed, Thurs, and Sat. He's soooo close, next we get to start painting. On Thursday, Jake came to spend the night with mom, so we took the boys swimming.
Friday, Matt took a day off to go to Six Flags with us. Luke spent the day with mom and Jake. The crowd wasn't bad at all. The boys got to ride all the kiddie rides, and Joshua is just tall enough to ride the mind bender, which he rode 3 times, twice with Matt and once with me. They have added a water park just past the Scream Machine. It was quite fun, but since the sun wasn't shining (it was overcast and sprinkling on and off all day), the water was very cold! The boys were troopers and lasted until 7:30, Caleb crashed right after we left the park and slept until the next morning. Here is a link that takes you to a picture of us with the heroes from the Hall of Justice. They had just captured Lex Luther, and Caleb wouldn't go up to see them unless I went with him. http://sixflags.venuephotos.com/SFP/r.d?i=31489813

Saturday, we had lunch with mom at her neighborhood BBQ and then a fish fry at our church that evening.

Luke is our future dumpster diver (hopefully not!). I threw some cantaloupe pieces into the trash, and the next thing I knew, Luke had pulled open the trash can and was stuffing cantaloupe into his mouth as fast as possible! I redirected him, but the next day when I threw away some watermelon, I found him again stuffing his face. You'd think that we never feed the child!

Thursday, July 5, 2007

Gainesville Georgia makes the Washington Post

This is an interesting article about Gainesville, Georgia. It's just 30 minutes south of here - where we had our first house and where all three of the boys were born. I don't care for the way they make the interviewed people sound, but the story is very true. Even the subdivision that we lived in has been run down to a condition that I would never consider living in now, for example, the entrance sign for the subdivision is missing and graffiti is painted in its place, there were weeds growing in most of the yards, and our house is now a neon color!

Small-Town Resistance Helped to Seal Defeat

By N.C. Aizenman
Washington Post Staff Writer
Friday, June 29, 2007; A01

GAINESVILLE, Ga. -- Stephanie Usrey strode up to her local Wal-Mart
store the other morning with the steely look of a boxer about to step into
the ring.

A stay-at-home mother of two, Usrey has dreaded shopping at this particular
branch ever since a Friday afternoon about five years ago, when she said she
suddenly noticed she was the only non-Latino customer.

"That was the first time I looked around and said, 'Man, I didn't realize
how many Mexicans there were here,' " Usrey, 39, recalled. "And they don't
seem to feel any discomfort when they're, like, six inches from your face
and talking to each other in their language, either. I just felt very
encroached upon. . . . It was like an instant feeling of 'I'm in the
minority, and if we don't get control over this, pretty soon all of America
will be outnumbered. ' "

That sense of alarm, echoed in communities across the nation, helped seal
defeat for the Senate immigration bill Thursday. Fueled by talk-radio hosts
and Web sites, Usrey and tens of thousands of other first-time activists
bombarded their senators with phone calls and e-mails decrying the bill as
an unacceptable amnesty for the nation's estimated 12 million illegal
immigrants.

Nowhere were the bill's opponents more influential than here in Georgia ,
whose two Republican senators, Johnny Isakson and Saxby
Chambliss ,
originally helped craft the legislation. Two days after its unveiling in
May, Chambliss was booed at his state's Republican convention. Isakson's
office received more than 21,000 calls from opponents of the bill, compared
with 6,000 from supporters.

Thursday, both Georgia senators voted to kill the bill they once supported.

Analysts say the unprecedented passion over immigration is largely the
result of the seismic shift in settlement patterns since the mid-1990s --
when the expanding economy prompted a surge of immigrants to bypass longtime
gateway states such as California, New York and Texas, in favor of suburban and rural regions of the South and Midwest. Within a
decade, the foreign-born population of 25 states doubled. In six other
states with almost no prior experience of Latino immigration, including
Georgia, the Latino population more than tripled.

"I think this new pattern of immigration is what's really pushing the
politics of this," said William H. Frey, a demographer at the Brookings
Institution
. "Before, people outside the seven gateway states didn't care much one way
or the other about immigration. Now, you suddenly have all these people
across Middle America seeing immigrants in their neighborhoods. "

Gainesville, an area of about 102,000 set along a lake in the foothills of
the Blue Ridge Mountains, is solid Bush territory.
Even now, many locals speak of the president's
support of the Senate bill the way one would of a beloved son who has
momentarily strayed but is sure to come to his senses.

This is still a place where men take their sons deer hunting and moms call
out to one another in the supermarket in cheerful Southern drawls. And
although the highways leading out of the city have been colonized by the
usual sprawl of Home Depot, PetSmart and OfficeMax
big-box stores, downtown Gainesville retains a tranquil, small-town feel.
Colonnaded white mansions line one of the major avenues. Clothing boutiques
and cafes ring a landscaped central square with a monument dedicated to "Our
Confederate Soldiers."

A few feet away, in almost as prominent a spot, stands a statue of a rooster
-- a testament to local pride in the chicken processing plants that have
given the region its identity as "poultry capital of the world" since the
1950s.

But those poultry plants are arguably most responsible for the wave of
immigration transforming Gainesville. For years the plants, which include
Mar-Jac, Pilgrim's Pride and Tysons, among many others, employed mostly
African Americans to do the grueling work at the heart of poultry
processing. Then, in the early 1980s, a growth of other industries opened up
less-taxing jobs.

The poultry plants responded to the resulting labor shortage by welcoming
workers from Mexico. Today, Hall County
, of which Gainesville is the county seat, is more than 25 percent Latino,
including both legal and illegal immigrants.

Max Crawford, 54, a plant production manager, estimates that 90 percent of
the workers he supervises are Latino immigrants. Crawford, who asked that
his company not be named because he is not authorized to speak for it, said
he admires how hard Latinos work. But he is also unsettled by many of their
customs, such as a tendency to throw toilet paper in the trash rather than
in the toilet -- a common practice in areas of Latin America
where commodes do not flush with sufficient force to handle paper.

"I mean, we actually had to show them a video explaining how you're supposed
to put the toilet paper in the toilet," he said.

Crawford's friend Larry Davies, 54, shook his head in amazement.

The two were seated at one of the wooden tables at the Longstreet Cafe, the
remnants of a fried chicken lunch on their plates. On one of the beige walls
behind them hung a television monitor broadcasting the Fox News Channel
. On another hung black-and-white photos of town landmarks destroyed by a
tornado in 1936: a white-washed church; the old City Hall.

The packed restaurant seemed almost as much of a relic. It is one of the few
gathering spots left in Gainesville where nearly every face is white.

Drive along the industrial strip just south of town, and you could almost be
in Mexico .
Pastel-colored signs identify the Tres Amigos launderette, the Flor de
Jalisco grocery, the Mejor de Michoacan ice cream shop, the Casa Blanca
party hall and the Iglesia Adventista del Septimo Dia.

The immigrant presence is just as noticeable in local schools. Some are as
much as 70 percent Latino.

Perhaps most alarming to Crawford, however, has been the rise of Latino
gangs -- not enough to cause a major spike in crime statistics but enough to
keep police busy painting over graffiti on the medians and sound barriers
along some roadways.

Crawford and Davies have been best buddies since their days at Gainesville
High School, and there was a time when they mused that their children might
go there as well.

"But not the way it is now," said Crawford, whose youngest daughter just
completed her junior year at a county high school outside of Gainesville.

The restaurant's owner, Tim Bunch, 50, walked by and gave a friendly wave.
Like several of his customers, Bunch is less concerned by the arrival of
illegal immigrants to Gainesville
than by the local reaction to them.

"Most of [the Mexicans] don't want to come here. They just need to eat," he
said later. "I think we're all God's children, created in his image. . . .
And I would hope hearts don't grow to a point where they are so hardened
about another human being."

Still, the dominant theme of conversation around the tables was of a town
being inexorably deteriorated by illegal immigration.

Martha Hemphill, 67, a retired hospital administrator, talked about how she
is afraid to go to the malls after 8 p.m.

Charles Slay, 73, described how, on a recent visit to the emergency room at
the city's main medical center, he was incensed to find it filled with
Mexicans, whom he presumed were seeking non-emergency care because they
lacked health insurance.

"You should've seen how I had to holler to get the nurse's attention," he
said.

Uraina Smith, 61, and her husband, Billy Ray Smith, 66, said they were
forced to sell their home in a pretty subdivision of Colonial and ranch
houses called Willow Ridge because it was "taken over" by Mexicans who
parked on the grass, jumped into the communal pool in their jeans shorts and
crammed multiple families into the same house.

"It used to be a real nice area. Now it's a slum," said Billy Ray, with a
sigh.

Although their complaints were not new, until recently few had done more
than gripe to one another. Most said they were unaware when Congress
considered a similar legalization plan last year. But this time around, the
television and talk-radio personalities many favor here -- Bill O'Reilly, Sean Hannity
and Gainesville' s own Martha Zoller -- have put the issue on the front
burner.

Crawford said he decided to get in touch with his senators because,
"Everyone was saying you need to let them know how you feel about this right
now."

Sunday, July 1, 2007

My little helpers

We finally opened the boxes of books that I have for Joshua's school work and decided to put together the little bookshelf that will hold them all. All three boys decided to pitch in and "help" me. Between Caleb pounding dents in the side of the shelf and Luke trying to eat the nails and Joshua telling everyone how to do it, we manged to get the shelf put together and all the books set up. Here is the scene...We also went to the carnival at library for the summer reading program. The boys got a big bag full of loot since they got a prize at each game station. Here they are doing the egg toss. They also tried the three legged race, which started out just fine, but Joshua ended up dragging Caleb down the course trying to "win."We went to the local annual concert and fireworks Friday night. The rain cleared just in time for the concert, and we enjoyed just hanging out and visiting with people, ah, one of the benefits of a small town. :-) We also did quite a bit of teenage people watching. It's so funny to see how they dress, interact, and try to impress each other. It takes me back to the Street Dance in Vidalia that happens each year with the Onion Festival. Several kids stopped by to say hi to Jean (since she has taught for many years), and then when they left, she'd give us the scoop on them. It was interesting to get her take on them. Luke didn't like the big boom from the fireworks at first, but he liked the lights.

We have a busy week ahead. Joshua and Caleb have swim lessons and a visit to the dentist (praying for no cavities!). We also have Jean's birthday on the 4th with picnics and fireworks!